Relationship between parents and children

Parenting without punishments and cry
In the period from one year to three with a toddler takes a surprising metamorphosis: he is becoming more independent, but I. more problematic. This book is conveniently structured guide…

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Threats Creek irony childhood fears
Parenting fear 1. Intimidation To restrict the activity of the child, parents invent a system of intimidation: — Will not be a mother to listen to, you are going to…

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Health – Parents of children


Adults go to the toilet thanks to his brain. The signal from the filled bladder enters the brain, and he commands: “be Patient” or “Go to the toilet”. The brain child must learn to recognize these signals of the bladder. If not, then the child endlessly written. Often this happens is to blame incorrectly selected pot.

Very often parents buy musical pots . as soon as the liquid from that pot sounds funny song. Use musical potty is the development of a conditioned reflex: the music started – pee. When similar experiments in dogs conducted academician Pavlov. He gave the dogs food and included a metronome. As a result stood out the gastric juice. And then it turned out that if you just turn on the metronome, the gastric juice will also stand out, and don’t need food. Combining a trip to the toilet with music, you will develop the child’s reflex to the tune. Accustomed to, he can start writing anywhere, as soon as you hear this kind of music.

Pot toy also enables the baby to learn to go to the toilet. The child plays, gets distracted and forgets to pee.

The potty should be comfortable . that it could well be based.

The act of urination is fully formed in children to 4 years. By this age, the child must learn to hold urine day and night. But often there Continue reading

The Science of winning. How to teach your child to win and lose with dignity?


1. Proud of him – always!

First we need to explain to the child that if he will lose or he will not be able to easily finish­Xia its goals, it will be less to love – on the contrary, mom and dad will be continued­press to be proud of him because he did not give up, Pro­Dalil the fight despite the loss. The child must be absolutely sure!

2. Have patience

So much longing for victory, kiddies, it happens, and solnica­ut – “quietly” move, or remove figures, maps, under­tunable under the rules, doing extra running. Rela­TES it easy. ‘t do­Maite, that child will grow up to be a crook and a fraud­schik, he himself perfectly knowl­et that is doing poorly, but win he needs at any cost, and aprerequisite rules him until just incomprehensible. This will come with time.

So try cover­take benevolence, don’t blame the kid too much – otherwise, you may just destroy his motivation to win. Remember that along with it is lost and a desire to achieve anything, and it does not help in life.

3.Don’t play in the giveaway

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The Development of independence the child’s third year of life in a family environment.


Currently, the character of family education in modern Russia is very variable and depends on many conditions, but a major in the education of children up to three years for most parents remains concern about their health and hygiene care. Good food, necessary clothing and care for the baby, regular hygiene and operating procedures (bathing, walking, massage, exercise), regular monitoring of child health is the main concern of the parents. However, the main indicator of good child development is not only the proper physical development, and the absence of disease, but also timely mental development. The mental development of the child rarely becomes the subject of attention of parents.

The most important element in shaping the psyche of the young child, as noted in pre-school pedagogy and child psychology, is the development of independence and the emergence of the ability to establish links between action and result, the presence of a variety of motor actions carried out in the subject activity. According to scientists in the field (B. G. Ananiev, A. V. Zaporozhets, I. Loginova, A. M. Fonarev, Continue reading

The Significance of the family in the child’s life


The value of the family in the life of every person it is difficult to overestimate. The family gives us support, support, warmth, communication skills, first lessons of love. It helps us to develop character, teaches us to overcome difficulties, etc. And better than the family, the more it pays attention to each family member and the baby including, the more confident the child will feel in life.

Of course, the most important role in the life of every child parents play. Them children imitate, they want to be like. However, paternal and maternal love for a child is not the same.

A mother’s love — is unconditional love. Mom is ready to take their child any (good or bad, healthy and sick, etc.) and loves him only for what he is. The inability of the mother to love her child negatively affects the formation of his self-esteem, self-consciousness of the child and his ability to love. Especially harmful is the lack of unconditional love of the mother for girls. This creates a feeling of loneliness and insecurity in relationships with peers and adults. Also arise from the lack of love in childhood or excessive demands of the mother may be the presence of already Continue reading

What is crying newborn? Raising a child is the Family and childhood


Chapter from the Handbook for nurses ’s Successful breastfeeding and psychological unity of the mother-child”, written by order of the Ministry of health with support from who/UNICEF

During the first three months of life, all babies cry a lot. Crying — this is the only way a newborn the mother to report that he is bad. To the baby form a good a good impression about the world, none of his request for assistance should not be neglected. Moreover, the mother’s reaction should be immediate. The sooner the mother comes to the child for help, the less it suffers the nervous system and the more favorable is his impression of the new environment.

Interestingly, the relationship between mother and child crying dictates her intellectual level and cultural roots. The children of Americans and natives in Western Europe cry more often and longer and this is due to the mother’s reaction to the great rallying cry of a baby. Anthropologist at Cornell University and author of the book “Our children, ourselves” Meredith small says: “In the West, the mother responds to the cry of their child, on average, after one minute — she usually picks him up and soothes. Continue reading

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Threats Creek irony childhood fears
Parenting fear 1. Intimidation To restrict the activity of the child, parents invent a system of intimidation: — Will not be a mother to listen to, you are going to…


Threats Creek irony childhood fears
Parenting fear 1. Intimidation To restrict the activity of the child, parents invent a system of intimidation: — Will not be a mother to listen to, you are going to…

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