Know your child, Former parents don't: how to help your child survive divorce?
  Today divorce is not spoken with sadly-cloying tone, unfortunately have become accustomed. If earlier it was believed that the main thing is to keep whatever was family, so the…

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  The probability of being insulted in the modern world is only increasing. Our response to these insults, most often, does not suit us. And we think, why not do…

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British parents angered teaching children to dance at the pole

 

Parents in the village of Sanli, England, were outraged, seeing as four-year-old child is involved in dance at the pole, which usually can only be seen in strip clubs, but has recently become fashionable in fitness clubs.

Students from the Academy Revolutions Pole demonstrated this kind of dance during the summer fair in elementary school Crockenhill, reports the Daily Mail newspaper. The performers were dressed in glittering form-fitting shorts and short tops and danced at the pole to the music from disney’s “the lion King” and the song Bonnie Tyler ’s Holding Out For a Hero”.

One of the fathers said it wouldn’t look so terrible if they “were dressed decently”, however, he said, “because of their clothes and bright makeup idea seemed inappropriate. I had the feeling that I’m watching something very nasty”.

However, despite the fact that one of the performers was 12 years old and the other only 4, the school administration and the owner of the dance Studio did not support the opinion of parents.

The school Director Sarah Uorshou (Sarah Warshow) said she invited the participants of the Academy Revolutions Pole to speak at a school fair, because she believes that pole Continue reading

Questioning “why do you love your parents? “

 

“because they’re my parents, just so, you can’t love something”.

“listen to me, when I feel bad, patience”.

“What words would you like to hear from your mom and dad?”

from mom: “I love you, let’s go out for a walk, the kindest words (honey, Bunny, clever)”

from dad: boys – “for you, honey, you’re a real man, I’m proud of you”, girl – “how was school? how are your classes? I love you, if you have a problem, I am ready to help you buy things from? what do you give?”

^ 3. “What do you like to do together with your parents?”

From the children’s responses, we learned that this practice is “to go to rest on nature, to talk, chat, watch movies, play, do homework, do that trough.”

Psychologists say that:

it is the Pope often avoid conflict;

dads harder to switch from communicating with colleagues for a conversation with the daughter or son;

dads are often not able to control your emotions and move on cry, the instructions strictly.

The father’s role in family education is great.

1.A personal example of his father.

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Know your child, Former parents don’t: how to help your child survive divorce?

 

Today divorce is not spoken with sadly-cloying tone, unfortunately have become accustomed. If earlier it was believed that the main thing is to keep whatever was family, so the children had a father, but now society increasingly inclined to believe that if a divorce is necessary for parents, it is essential for children. But even if your decision to leave is the only correct way out of the stalled marital relationships, painful experiences not to avoid any of the participants. And are the most vulnerable and dependent family members – our children. So, they are most in need of assistance. Psychologists have identified a few General steps which are emotions and feelings of the child during this difficult period.

Denial

The child does not believe in what is happening, not willing to accept the divorce. He may even tell friends that dad just left on a business trip. He’s scared, depressed and only wants things to be as before.

Anger

After a time, the child understands that, as before, will be gone and embittered: rude, becomes irritable and angry. And this anger can be directed at the parent Continue reading

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