Psychology of relations between spouses, former spouses
Divorce is always a huge shock in the life of any person. None of the former spouses nothing from it. But most often the biggest psychological losses is not the…

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My son has trouble connecting
  Hello, dear Alain! Wanted Your advice on a very important issue for us, as she did not know what to do. The bottom line is this. I have a…

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The Influence of parents on children

 

In one article all the subtleties of parent–child relationships to disclose. Today we will consider only how negative words, name-calling child with no ability to control your emotions affect humans in the future.

In fact, the influence of parents on children is difficult to assess. Since there are other authoritative adults, some idols in adolescents, books, all of which also lay much in person, then in the amount of impact on his values and behavior.

In psychology one experiment that no one dares to repeat. It was conducted on children orphans.

The children were divided into two groups. Those who are lucky enough and they were in the first group received approval and constantly praised them for any attempt to properly and competently to speak, and generally favored any statement. In the second group did not skimp on harsh word, but any hint of a speech impediment immediately condemned, child publicly humiliated, and even those who normally spoke, they were called “pathetic stutterers”.

According to the results of the experiment, children in the second group, which had no defect of speech become stutterers. The defect of speech is preserved in adult life. Continue reading

Know your child, Former parents don’t: how to help your child survive divorce?

 

Today divorce is not spoken with sadly-cloying tone, unfortunately have become accustomed. If earlier it was believed that the main thing is to keep whatever was family, so the children had a father, but now society increasingly inclined to believe that if a divorce is necessary for parents, it is essential for children. But even if your decision to leave is the only correct way out of the stalled marital relationships, painful experiences not to avoid any of the participants. And are the most vulnerable and dependent family members – our children. So, they are most in need of assistance. Psychologists have identified a few General steps which are emotions and feelings of the child during this difficult period.

Denial

The child does not believe in what is happening, not willing to accept the divorce. He may even tell friends that dad just left on a business trip. He’s scared, depressed and only wants things to be as before.

Anger

After a time, the child understands that, as before, will be gone and embittered: rude, becomes irritable and angry. And this anger can be directed at the parent Continue reading

The Pedagogical communication. Stages and styles of pedagogical communication

 

Pedagogical communication is the interaction of teacher with students in the educational process, aimed at creating a favorable psychological climate, conducive to personal development . ( Functions of pedagogical communication: cognition, information exchange, organization of activities, the exchange of roles, empathy, self-assertion).

Styles of pedagogical communication and leadership

An important characteristic of professional-pedagogical communication style is. Style is individual-typological peculiarities of interaction of teacher and students. It takes into account the peculiarities of the communicative possibilities of the teacher, the level of communication between teachers and students, the creative personality of the teacher, especially student team. The style of communication of the teacher with children is a category of social and moral.

In pedagogical literature are the following styles:

Communication based on the passion of a joint activity. This type of communication is based on high professional and ethical attitudes of the teacher, it is a shared creative activity of pupils together with the teachers and leadership.

Communication based on friendship. Productive Continue reading