Every nation and every family separately over the life of its own specific social and personal traditions. Social traditions influence the structure of society, its legal and legislative structure.
Family tradition is imprinted on the development of family relationships, mutual understanding among family members, feelings of mutual respect, support and empathy.
Modern traditions of family relations differ significantly from the requirements of the past. The differences relate to the forms and degree of rigidity of social control over the implementation of the marriage and family relations, content and style of paternal and maternal roles, responsibilities, relationships, children, relations of children and parents, relationships between members of different generations living in one household.
Family traditions affect mental and physical health of each family member, their characters and actions, create more or less favorable conditions for raising children and establishing positive family relationships.
Family tradition – the shape and condition of coexistence relatives, which allows to some extent to implement its functions – the reproduction and rearing of offspring, farming and the needs of its members. Family traditions are determined Continue reading
Divorce carries a lot of negative emotions. When divorcing spouses often acquire an inferiority complex, their self-esteem drops and so on. But in comparison with this, a child, divorce of parents, receives a portion of negative emotions several times more.
All this negativity that accumulates in the memory of a child, may not go unnoticed and will definitely affect the child’s behaviour, both in early childhood and in adult life.
Absolutely avoid the negative emotions of the child, is unlikely to happen, but best to smooth them completely in your power. This is necessary to ensure that the child is entering adulthood, was not afraid of marriage, birth and other important factors, which may affect the divorce on the negative side.
Who and how should I tell my child about divorce
First of all I want to say that the silence in this situation is not highly relevant, as well as the concealment of facts. Child is required to announce the divorce, it is better in the early period.
This is justified by the fact that the child at the time of your pre drawbridges skirmishes and scandals usually left alone with his thoughts. And this leads to the development of poor emotional and mental areas.
Leadership potential begins to form in early childhood. Because leadership — is, first of all, certain behavioral responses. The responses we learn from infancy, watching our loved ones to our actions. Remembering that we are praised, when you are abused, in any cases, we form a “dynamic stereotype”. In other words, the habit of reacting in certain circumstances.
That’s why, in the same situations someone starts to panic, and someone takes responsibility .
Of course, every parent wants the child grew “big man”, was beaten out in leaders. Saving money on education, trying to help links. It’s only natural. However, without knowing it, their way of action, they unwittingly they clip the wings of their own children, not letting off. What to do, how to avoid this error?
1. Allow your child to fill their own cones. As a child, potentialin leaders should have experience of falling off a bike, fights with peers, broken noses and knees. They should not be afraid to cope with their problems, overcome their own children’s difficulties. If you will be directly involved in the situation, to defend, Continue reading