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How to help your child, go through divorces

The main task of the divorcing parents is to minimize the suffering of all parties involved.

Children of different ages differently understand what is happening in the relationship between parents and their explain yourself divorce.

A particularly strong influence it has on children under the age of 6 years, for normal psychological development which are primarily necessary stability. During this period the child develops understanding of the world and relations between people.

Children aged 3.5 – 6 years after the divorce, parents often have a strong self-abasement. Being unable to understand the true state of Affairs, they take the blame for their parents ‘ divorce.

Children aged 7 – 8 years, often experiencing feelings of anger and resentment, especially his father.

10 – 11 years, children feel abandoned, hurt, angry with their parents and are ashamed of their family problems at school.

Aged 13-18 years, experiencing a sense of loss, resentment, adolescents still be able to adequately imagine the causes and consequences of divorce, the quality of their relationships with each parent.

You need to be prepared for the different emotional reactions of their child, as well as to possible violations of his physical condition, up to diseases. Continue reading

Know your child, Former parents don’t: how to help your child survive divorce?

 

Today divorce is not spoken with sadly-cloying tone, unfortunately have become accustomed. If earlier it was believed that the main thing is to keep whatever was family, so the children had a father, but now society increasingly inclined to believe that if a divorce is necessary for parents, it is essential for children. But even if your decision to leave is the only correct way out of the stalled marital relationships, painful experiences not to avoid any of the participants. And are the most vulnerable and dependent family members – our children. So, they are most in need of assistance. Psychologists have identified a few General steps which are emotions and feelings of the child during this difficult period.

Denial

The child does not believe in what is happening, not willing to accept the divorce. He may even tell friends that dad just left on a business trip. He’s scared, depressed and only wants things to be as before.

Anger

After a time, the child understands that, as before, will be gone and embittered: rude, becomes irritable and angry. And this anger can be directed at the parent Continue reading

Mother-Daughter – relations psychology

 

Girlfriend or rival — the relationship of mother and daughter are constructed, at times, not only on love, but on mutual grievances. But this does not mean that the situation cannot be changed. Explain how to do it.

Main in this process, of course, is mother. It depends on how her child, as an adult, will interact with people. “the Fact that the child is born with a clean sheet is greatly exaggerated, — said the eve of Ephraim . instructor of technology theta healing, transformational coach (ICBT), transformational coach (EI). —Many our patterns of behavior laid down at the level of instincts. Moreover, children come into the family at a specific time and a specific purpose. Sometimes they help the mother solve her problems, help her or something to teach. Wanting to understand the relationship, you need to go back to the moment of conception the baby”.

We offer you to explore several types of relations of mother and daughter. Perhaps in one of them you will find out your option and following our tips will be able to harmonize it.

Best friend

These relationships are filled with positive — mother and daughter are extremely close emotionally. Communicating with each other on equal terms, they can do a lot to each other to trust Continue reading