Today divorce is not spoken with sadly-cloying tone, unfortunately have become accustomed. If earlier it was believed that the main thing is to keep whatever was family, so the children had a father, but now society increasingly inclined to believe that if a divorce is necessary for parents, it is essential for children. But even if your decision to leave is the only correct way out of the stalled marital relationships, painful experiences not to avoid any of the participants. And are the most vulnerable and dependent family members – our children. So, they are most in need of assistance. Psychologists have identified a few General steps which are emotions and feelings of the child during this difficult period.
The child does not believe in what is happening, not willing to accept the divorce. He may even tell friends that dad just left on a business trip. He’s scared, depressed and only wants things to be as before.
After a time, the child understands that, as before, will be gone and embittered: rude, becomes irritable and angry. And this anger can be directed at the parent Continue reading
I agree, I was just the same. Though all his slack – lie, lie and anything I like and have made. I went to “reverse”. Here I want him, for example, to buy something (to give). Or already looking to buy, but did not immediately give up, let the small and insignificant (favorite magazine, a regular Snickers – he loves them, etc). I say” I will do such-and-such. (the only better one something and not a list of 18 items) – will receive a gift”. And my son, as the hurricane begins to rush. So he wants something! Surprised myself, but it works!
You wrote that you punish him. It seems that you are unfair to him. Children generally believe that all that you have given them this them. The child begins to behave worse, Oh so you (took the phone, etc) so I do so, receive! That is a bit of a fight turns out. On the one hand it is good even that the child has a clear position that he is not a sissy, but still children in global Affairs must submit to parents (at night to sleep, go to school, homework to do, things to clean up after yourself, eat right, dress for the weather).
Because it is difficult to understand why the mother first of all allows, then takes away. Riot. Personality, with its own interests and views at the surroundings, build up to seven years. Seek less primitive methods of education instead of prohibitions and deprivation.
Your child considers punishment Continue reading
With the birth of a child to parents adds a lot of hassle and additional responsibilities. The child should be surrounded by love and attention, this refers to a child’s room, in which you need to make everything comfortable, safe and rewarding for him. Correctly and beautifully arrange a baby – not an easy task for parents, so you should pay sufficient attention.
One of the important elements in the children’s room is a children’s rug . At the moment there are many types of carpets in the nursery on different characteristics, but their main goal is practicality in care, comfort and safety for the child.
How to choose and buy children’s rug (the rug in the nursery)
The choice of starting the children’s rug is necessary first of all to pay attention to its composition. this will depend, harmful or not, as much as practical in cleaning and maintenance. will cause allergies the child or not.
At the moment, the carpets in the nursery produced from natural and artificial materials. as well as combining them. Choosing which is better to buy baby blanket in composition, pay attention to the following factors:
Environmentally friendly materials in the carpet. Naturally better rugs Continue reading