Today divorce is not spoken with sadly-cloying tone, unfortunately have become accustomed. If earlier it was believed that the main thing is to keep whatever was family, so the children had a father, but now society increasingly inclined to believe that if a divorce is necessary for parents, it is essential for children. But even if your decision to leave is the only correct way out of the stalled marital relationships, painful experiences not to avoid any of the participants. And are the most vulnerable and dependent family members – our children. So, they are most in need of assistance. Psychologists have identified a few General steps which are emotions and feelings of the child during this difficult period.
The child does not believe in what is happening, not willing to accept the divorce. He may even tell friends that dad just left on a business trip. He’s scared, depressed and only wants things to be as before.
After a time, the child understands that, as before, will be gone and embittered: rude, becomes irritable and angry. And this anger can be directed at the parent Continue reading
Divorce is always a huge shock in the life of any person. None of the former spouses nothing from it. But most often the biggest psychological losses is not the spouse who chose freedom or chose a new partner, and the one that realizes that the remains of a loved one. It is very difficult at this difficult time to keep calm, patience, self-control. Hard to hide the despair and pain from the people around them, and most importantly, from her own children.
Besides divorce radically changes the lives of both spouses. They have a huge number of new problems. For example, women have economic difficulties, if they remain with the children. Gradually changing personal tastes, preferences, changing the whole routine lifestyle, including relationships with common friends, relatives on both sides.
Can maintain a good relationship spouses and former spouses psychology of relations which are quite difficult? Let’s talk about this more:
Is it possible to maintain a normal relationship between the former spouses.
Most often it is women who are forever trying to break up the relationship that brings them pain. After divorce, many ex-wives trying to strike ex-husband. The pain, the hurt, the anger is still very strong. Often caused psychological trauma does Continue reading
Your baby was born… The parents immediately, there are many new cases and concerns: How to bathe my baby? At what age a child should have their own crib? To give or not to give the baby a pacifier? Gaining experience of parenthood, the answers to many questions of the care of their baby they are in. And sometimes give advice of a friend, grandparents, or other professionals that assist in the care of the child. However, there are questions that cannot be answered immediately. They are rather connected with development of the child, with his comprehension of the outside world and contact with mom and dad. “Spoiled child” is one of these issues. Today we will try to answer the question: Can you spoil your baby?
The path, which takes place each child in his development is way from complete dependence on the mother or other carers to independence and autonomy. And this path begins at birth. The first year of a child’s life is the most important. In fact at this time is set up the trust in the people and the world and its origins that trust takes from the relationship of the child and his mother. The child first year of life is considered only in interaction with his mother. There is even such a term: dyad “mother-child”. The task Continue reading