Today divorce is not spoken with sadly-cloying tone, unfortunately have become accustomed. If earlier it was believed that the main thing is to keep whatever was family, so the children had a father, but now society increasingly inclined to believe that if a divorce is necessary for parents, it is essential for children. But even if your decision to leave is the only correct way out of the stalled marital relationships, painful experiences not to avoid any of the participants. And are the most vulnerable and dependent family members – our children. So, they are most in need of assistance. Psychologists have identified a few General steps which are emotions and feelings of the child during this difficult period.
The child does not believe in what is happening, not willing to accept the divorce. He may even tell friends that dad just left on a business trip. He’s scared, depressed and only wants things to be as before.
After a time, the child understands that, as before, will be gone and embittered: rude, becomes irritable and angry. And this anger can be directed at the parent Continue reading
Girlfriend or rival — the relationship of mother and daughter are constructed, at times, not only on love, but on mutual grievances. But this does not mean that the situation cannot be changed. Explain how to do it.
Main in this process, of course, is mother. It depends on how her child, as an adult, will interact with people. “the Fact that the child is born with a clean sheet is greatly exaggerated, — said the eve of Ephraim . instructor of technology theta healing, transformational coach (ICBT), transformational coach (EI). —Many our patterns of behavior laid down at the level of instincts. Moreover, children come into the family at a specific time and a specific purpose. Sometimes they help the mother solve her problems, help her or something to teach. Wanting to understand the relationship, you need to go back to the moment of conception the baby”.
We offer you to explore several types of relations of mother and daughter. Perhaps in one of them you will find out your option and following our tips will be able to harmonize it.
These relationships are filled with positive — mother and daughter are extremely close emotionally. Communicating with each other on equal terms, they can do a lot to each other to trust Continue reading
No matter how much we wanted to see their children truthful, from time to time they have to state that children, like adults, lying. Lie children of all ages, but especially they often do in early childhood.
Age 2 to 4 years:
– Today I told to all children in kindergarten that we were in Africa.
– But you haven’t been there…
But someday we’re still going there, right?
In young children from birth highly developed imagination. Sometimes children with difficulty distinguish the actual from the fictional and therefore often fantastic stories turn into a dream come true, “persisted” children’s minds.
Four-Misha often brought from kindergarten his favorite toys, but he always claimed that the teacher allowed him to take them home. The psychologist explained: so Misha wants to have this toy that is sure that is entitled to take her home.
What to do?
Stupid and harmful to punish kids for similar offenses, even if they’re lying. Parents need to patiently explain to the children that it is not always what he wants – executable. Long lecture about honesty Continue reading