In one article all the subtleties of parent–child relationships to disclose. Today we will consider only how negative words, name-calling child with no ability to control your emotions affect humans in the future.
In fact, the influence of parents on children is difficult to assess. Since there are other authoritative adults, some idols in adolescents, books, all of which also lay much in person, then in the amount of impact on his values and behavior.
In psychology one experiment that no one dares to repeat. It was conducted on children orphans.
The children were divided into two groups. Those who are lucky enough and they were in the first group received approval and constantly praised them for any attempt to properly and competently to speak, and generally favored any statement. In the second group did not skimp on harsh word, but any hint of a speech impediment immediately condemned, child publicly humiliated, and even those who normally spoke, they were called “pathetic stutterers”.
According to the results of the experiment, children in the second group, which had no defect of speech become stutterers. The defect of speech is preserved in adult life. Continue reading
No matter how much we wanted to see their children truthful, from time to time they have to state that children, like adults, lying. Lie children of all ages, but especially they often do in early childhood.
Age 2 to 4 years:
– Today I told to all children in kindergarten that we were in Africa.
– But you haven’t been there…
But someday we’re still going there, right?
In young children from birth highly developed imagination. Sometimes children with difficulty distinguish the actual from the fictional and therefore often fantastic stories turn into a dream come true, “persisted” children’s minds.
Four-Misha often brought from kindergarten his favorite toys, but he always claimed that the teacher allowed him to take them home. The psychologist explained: so Misha wants to have this toy that is sure that is entitled to take her home.
What to do?
Stupid and harmful to punish kids for similar offenses, even if they’re lying. Parents need to patiently explain to the children that it is not always what he wants – executable. Long lecture about honesty Continue reading
Your baby was born… The parents immediately, there are many new cases and concerns: How to bathe my baby? At what age a child should have their own crib? To give or not to give the baby a pacifier? Gaining experience of parenthood, the answers to many questions of the care of their baby they are in. And sometimes give advice of a friend, grandparents, or other professionals that assist in the care of the child. However, there are questions that cannot be answered immediately. They are rather connected with development of the child, with his comprehension of the outside world and contact with mom and dad. “Spoiled child” is one of these issues. Today we will try to answer the question: Can you spoil your baby?
The path, which takes place each child in his development is way from complete dependence on the mother or other carers to independence and autonomy. And this path begins at birth. The first year of a child’s life is the most important. In fact at this time is set up the trust in the people and the world and its origins that trust takes from the relationship of the child and his mother. The child first year of life is considered only in interaction with his mother. There is even such a term: dyad “mother-child”. The task Continue reading