In the period from one year to three with a toddler takes a surprising metamorphosis: he is becoming more independent, but I. more problematic. This book is conveniently structured guide for parents of kids who do not listen, naughty, bad, eat, climb everywhere, do not get along with others, whining, calling me names, have trouble falling asleep, etc.
This book is a real godsend for parents who need to quickly and humane methods to cope with the problematic situation in which they were put by a child. Almost every parent in the period when the baby crossed the one-year-old milestone, you feel like your own son or daughter like to test them for durability. Some did not want to bed, the others get up at night, someone is playing with the food or running away from mom on the street. There are those who throw a tantrum in the store or to take other people’s things without asking.
Of course, we modern parents, we understand that the problem behavior of our children is either a consequence of our parental shortcomings or wrong us understood the intentions of the child. Continue reading
In one article all the subtleties of parent–child relationships to disclose. Today we will consider only how negative words, name-calling child with no ability to control your emotions affect humans in the future.
In fact, the influence of parents on children is difficult to assess. Since there are other authoritative adults, some idols in adolescents, books, all of which also lay much in person, then in the amount of impact on his values and behavior.
In psychology one experiment that no one dares to repeat. It was conducted on children orphans.
The children were divided into two groups. Those who are lucky enough and they were in the first group received approval and constantly praised them for any attempt to properly and competently to speak, and generally favored any statement. In the second group did not skimp on harsh word, but any hint of a speech impediment immediately condemned, child publicly humiliated, and even those who normally spoke, they were called “pathetic stutterers”.
According to the results of the experiment, children in the second group, which had no defect of speech become stutterers. The defect of speech is preserved in adult life. Continue reading
I agree, I was just the same. Though all his slack – lie, lie and anything I like and have made. I went to “reverse”. Here I want him, for example, to buy something (to give). Or already looking to buy, but did not immediately give up, let the small and insignificant (favorite magazine, a regular Snickers – he loves them, etc). I say” I will do such-and-such. (the only better one something and not a list of 18 items) – will receive a gift”. And my son, as the hurricane begins to rush. So he wants something! Surprised myself, but it works!
You wrote that you punish him. It seems that you are unfair to him. Children generally believe that all that you have given them this them. The child begins to behave worse, Oh so you (took the phone, etc) so I do so, receive! That is a bit of a fight turns out. On the one hand it is good even that the child has a clear position that he is not a sissy, but still children in global Affairs must submit to parents (at night to sleep, go to school, homework to do, things to clean up after yourself, eat right, dress for the weather).
Because it is difficult to understand why the mother first of all allows, then takes away. Riot. Personality, with its own interests and views at the surroundings, build up to seven years. Seek less primitive methods of education instead of prohibitions and deprivation.
Your child considers punishment Continue reading